1024x768, or maybe 1280x720 / 800 / 1024 is the highest you should go. If you go any higher, you'll get a very dark screen with a light field of view bubble around your party, which is very annoying IMHO. It already starts on the sides, on the 1280 resolutions.
Personally I've stuck to 640x480 for a long time, because I didn't like the shifting GUI when going into a journal or a store, but I got used to that now. At the moment, my preferred resolution is 800x600 on a 19 inch monitor. If I'd be using a widescreen monitor, I'd probably go to 1280x720 or 1280x800, or I might actually stick to 800x600 or 1024x768. I don't know yet; I'd need to try.
On a non-widescreen monitor, 800x600 seems the perfect resolution. For games such as these, I'd have liked that I'd had one of those old flat (25cm thick or so) Philips CRT's around, but they where WAAY to expensive at the time.
Post edited June 01, 2013 by Katsunami