Mivas: I wonder what is a rough ratio of men and women begging for killing them. I do agree that this martyr trope is way overused for sake of "Cry, man, cry and then fight ferociously" effect but I also have an impression that both genders are often victims of that. However right now I can recall only two guys from FF13. One didn't go down without battle and second benevolently allowed an enemy to kill him because he lost hope in a world, so there is a difference.
Well, at least in war movies, main protagonist's friends are dying on his hands like flies, usually.
"It's too late for me. Go!" - one of the most overused lines in cinematic history.
What is strange, when a man dies like that, nobody says it is sexist. Everybody are rather focusing on how brave and noble the dying character is - so selfless, he's not thinking about him dying, but to save his friends yet standing beside him.
One of the response videos to Anita's was pretty awesome - we should more focus about what those characters represent, what they do, not what
happens to them. characters should not be described by what happens to them. Like an amazing princess Zelda example. She is noble, wise, kind, selfless, compassionate, loves her people, but no...! She is a damsel in distress because someone kidnaps her. With her kidnapped, everything in the kingdom goes to shit - there is no peace in the land anymore, and the monsters are invading.
I don't agree we should see those characters like that. They are much, much more than just that.